Of course the road to hell is paved with good intentions - and we found that the reason the ceiling was cracking was because of a couple of weak, and one completely cracked, joist - incidentally the joist that the cabinets would have been secured to.
When asked, by my brother, what I would have done if we had gotten to the finish point and the ceiling had falled down, I told him that I just would not have had words for it. We're all better off having done the work up-front. Though our kitchen looked like a cellulose insulation bounce-house...


As a side note - when you order flooring: JUST PAY FOR DELIVERY. You have no idea how much the cases of this stuff weigh. I went to to our Depot with our Rav 4, because it had space for most of the product. It did not, however, have the suspension for it. I opted for a delivery fee instead of a new axle, shocks, tires - whatever would have given first.